so i live in SC and have for 10 years. butthead is from SC too. we are getting married in PA. i know not everyone will be able to come to PA for the wedding.
is it okay to have a party in SC sometime after the wedding? how would i do this on the invitations without deterring people from coming to the wedding?
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i would do them separately -- one invite for the wedding and another for the SC reception.
maybe send the SC reception card after the wedding invite has gone out. this would define it as a totally separte event. if the timing works, send it after the rsvp date for the wedding so people won't decide not to come to the wedding.