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bloomie · Marc Jacobs

anthropologie bicycle dress

Boots · Gucci

I'm 39 and struggling with the age appropriateness of some items myself. I honestly have to tell you that the dress reads a little young to me, but not ridiculously so. I also don't think that 41 is ancient by any means. If you love the pattern, wear it. Keep the length closer to the knees and mature it by wearing simple shoes and accessories.

For some reason, I also think that the pattern would also make a pretty and fun full circle skirt.

Suasoria · Chanel

IMO the combo of cut and fabric is twee for someone our age. I think there are probably sundress patterns where that fabric would be fun and unexpected, and I think you could wear that cut in a different fabric and look great, like gray with pinstripes, chambray, or abstract/Asian print. Together it's a "nyet comrade" from me. (The Anthro version looks tea length to me which is usually a really young look. I'd prefer above the knee.)

Also in some cases when you look younger, it's good to err on the side of sophisticated, and avoid things that might veer too far the other way. I guess my feeling is 'when in doubt - no.'

Suasoria · Chanel

Here are some woven dresses in styles where I think that fabric would be cute - and ideal for summer BBQs and cocktails on the patio and etc.

Surplice front

http://www.maxstudio.com/product/embroidered-dress-29468

Pretty basic but

http://www.maxstudio.com/product/thin-strap-shirred-front-dress-516

Cute a-line

http://www.maxstudio.com/product/rolled-cuffed-sleeve-plaid-dress-187

Strapless but more streamlined

http://www.maxstudio.com/product/strapless-dress-29462

I like the 60s feel of this one

http://www.maxstudio.com/product/taffeta-shift-dress-29054

Vanessa · Kate Spade

FWIW, I totally picture Carrie from Sex and the City rocking that dress with a shorter hemline,a moto jacket, killer heels and a hot bag. Of course, not all her outfits translate well to real life (at least not mine).

bloomie · Marc Jacobs

Thanks everyone. Sausoria, my mother always said, "when in doubt, don't." I think I am going to stay away from it.