it's GORGEOUS and WORTH IT! It will be the best day of your lives and your children and grandchildren will love looking at picture of you in your perfect dress.... (i always look at my grandparent's wedding pix)
Really, stunning!!!!! Can't wait to see all your accessories!
I really, really like it. It looks like something that I would want when I get married. It's glamourous and princessy all at the same time. Perfection!
Of all people, I'm the one to ask: Can you bargain with the shop owner to make a deal on the total price of the dress & alterations? You're about to make her a big sale. Apprx. 1850 + 350 = $2200 w/alterations. When I got married & visited several shops & even if they didn't have it in stock they were able to order it & go into a bidding war to win your sale from other boutiques. Or you could take a to a private seamstress to alter for a lot less.
SIGH - I wore a $140 Ann Taylor dress. Yours makes me instantly regret it & think "Princess" - SIGH
Believe me laken1, this is something I vacillate about everyday. There are so many good points for supporting "It's one dress - think of what else you could do with that money!" and "It's the only wedding day you'll ever have - buy what you love!". I'm at once feeling guilty for considering spending that much and elated for maybe getting my dream dress.
My rationalization has been this - I NEVER splurge on ANYTHING EVER. We can swing it financially, and this is my chance to do something indulgent for myself. Also, I want the dress to be a family heirloom (unlike my mothers puff-sleeved polyester number) and therefor I'm willing to spend a bit more as it would technically be an investment piece .
Please don't feel sad laken1 !
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LMonet wrote: Believe me laken1, this is something I vacillate about everyday. There are so many good points for supporting "It's one dress - think of what else you could do with that money!" and "It's the only wedding day you'll ever have - buy what you love!". I'm at once feeling guilty for considering spending that much and elated for maybe getting my dream dress. My rationalization has been this - I NEVER splurge on ANYTHING EVER. We can swing it financially, and this is my chance to do something indulgent for myself. Also, I want the dress to be a family heirloom (unlike my mothers puff-sleeved polyester number) and therefor I'm willing to spend a bit more as it would technically be an investment piece . Please don't feel sad laken1 !
I think if you are ever going to splurge, this is the time. I really hate to say this & i know we are only seeing it in a picture - but I think it fits you so well - do you have to have the bodice raised? I have looked at the picture a couple times since & I think it's fine. Does it just bother you when you have it on? I mean, I could understand that & if you are going to spend that much I imagine you do want a PERFECT fit....
I wouldn't feel guilty for spending that much - it is your wedding dress & if you can swing the $$, I'd do it. It's just beautiful.
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Yes, I definitely think you should go for, LMonet, especially since you said you want it to be an heirloom piece. It's one of the prettiest dresses I've seen. I keep coming back to this post just to look at it! You should indulge yourself, it's your wedding!