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I checked a lot of sites and can't really find anything very close.
I'm not sure if you're willing to consider something that is more of an Oxford or Oxford-inspired shoe, but here are some options:

Dolce Vita, $127 (you could try switching the laces for a ribbon)


Betsy Johnson, $175 on Zappos, less on Overstock & Smart Bargains



Victoria's Secret, $150

I think these Jessica Simpson shoes from DSW might come in gray but I can't tell if it's patent or suede.

Nine West, $160