You probably already have a milliner, but in case you don't, I'm going to take the opportunity to plug a friend of mine, Gena Conti. She makes some really beautiful hats - check her out http://www.genaconti.com/index.htm
She won the 2007 Kentucky Derby Museum award for this hat:
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"Fashion can be bought. Style one must possess." ~ Edna Woolman Chase