Get this, I found out that H has been talking to a female friend on the computer but has been talking in a not so married way. I will not get into the details(PI) but I know you ladies will figure it out. He has slept on couch and he says he is sorry and nothing was to come of it, it was just talk and playing around.This person lives in another state. This just adds fuel to the fire My emotions are on a roller coaster...... Thanks ladies for all your support, I so needed to tell someone since Iam trying to keep it together for Chris and the family until after Christmas
OMG!! Im totally pissed at him on your behalf as well. I know its painful to learn that kind of thing, but it must make you decision just a little bit easier. ((((hugs))))
I hope you make it through the holidays as best you can.
small fry, i am glad you are feeling this is a good direction. from everything you have said in the past, i definitely think this is a good step for you. you are already doing the work of two people, and now you can move on and concentrate on taking care of yourself and your son.
I'm sorry to hear this! I agree with what the other girls posted about not being selfish at all. You've tried time and again to make it work. I'm sorry it had to come to this, but it really does sound like it's the best decision. We're here for you!
oh small fry, i'm so sorry. i know exactly how you feel. i've been divorced for almost 4 yrs. and reading your post made me have deja vu because they are some of the exact thoughts and feelings i had about my marriage. it will be okay and you and Chris will be better off. you can't make something work if you are the only one trying.
please take care and know that we are here for you.
love and hugs to you
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I don't know how to say this so that I don't sound out of line, so I apologize... is it bad to say that I'm glad that you've decided to take this direction? Take care of yourself and your son.