"Deep down you may still be that same great guy I used to know. But it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you" Rachel Dawes, Batman Begins
I highly recommend Stila eye shadows. They have this 3-pan:
which is $8 empty. I've found that their eye shadow Kitten is perfect for everyday use.
It's a great neutral and it has a little shimmer to it that's really pretty. It's also beautiful if you lightly brush it over the top of your cheekbones for a little highlight.
For some reason, the website won't let me copy and paste the colors in here, but just from looking here, I think these colors would look pretty with your coloring:
Espresso Tone (I have this and it is GORGEOUS--it's more brown than it looks in the pic) Jade Eden Java
I second NCshopper's comments on Kitten - it is my favorite shadow ever. I have similar coloring to you, based on your description: dark hair and eyes, but pale skin.