I write them a few times a month to my bf who lives across the country. When we were in the same city, I might have written one a year. I think that receiving hand-written letters from loved ones are the best. Especially in this age of IM, email, texting, etc.
i send a lot of cards...birthday cards, thank you cards, sympathy cards, cards to cheer people up when i know they've been stressed or going through rough times. i try to write a little note in them to make them more personal. but i rarely write actual letters. i do occasionally though.
which reminds me...it's been like 2 years since i wrote to my dear, sweet madre/host mother from when i studied abroad. i need to get on that.
I really try to be good about mailing birthday cards to my friends...I send sympathy cards, get well cards, and lots and lots of thank you notes. I love getting mail! When I was little at sleep away camp, my mother would send me a letter for every day of camp...and she got me in the compulsive thank you note camp...I love stationary too, and am always looking for excuses to buy more!
What is this "letter" thing you are speaking of? Aside from cards and thank you notes, I don't think I've written a letter since I went away to college several years ago. My handwriting is horrendous, and no matter how hard I try to make it look pretty, it looks like a first grader got a hold of my pen. My writing is so bad that I seriously considered sending my wedding thank you stationary through the printer! I think I'm also very technology dependent (probably excessively so), and I would rather be able to email/text/call someone and have instant access rather than wait for something to make its way in the mail.
I love writing letters to friends a few times a year. It's so unexpected to receive them and people always feel special, that you thought of them enough to send a cute card or letter.
I write letters several times a month. I have a friend at USAFA (the Air Force Academy) and he writes me whenever he's in "confinement" for something, which seems to be slightly too often. So, I get the stationary out for him.