Thanks y'all, I think I knew this wasn't a very good idea - and revenge is really not like me. I think deep down I'm hoping he'll come back. But if he really cared about me, I dont' think he'd put up with the meanness I've been dishing out (apparently I did learn quite a lot from the players I dated). And honestly, I don't even want him, I just want him to want to because I was sooooo offended with his whole your-ovaries-are-dying-so-I-can't-really-be-with-you thing he pulled. Such crap.
I know we are two different people, but I have had the exact same thing happen and have had the exact same train of thought, guy breaks up with me, guy comes crawling back, I decide that I am going to "play" him and treat him like crap. Unfortunately, the story would always end with things going back to how we were when we were dating and nothing changing on his part. I finally made the decision that I would not do that anymore-when it was over, it was over.
I totally agree. If I were you, I would stay far, far away until you are sure, as Esquiress said, that you're totally indifferent. If he is still around *then*, then you'll know that he really cares about you and there's a chance for friendship.
ETA: And I also can't believe the crap about his plan. What.ev.er. You deserve better.
-- Edited by poptart at 10:05, 2006-05-01
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