I was all set to end things on Saturday night with T. Then we had this great talk and it seemed like I actually got thru to him about his behavior flipping me out. Things were okay for about a day and a half and then he started right back up with the smothering. I can't take it! He is acting like I'm his girlfriend and I'm not and I never was and never said that I wanted to be. So, I think I'm going to have to really break things off this time.
There are other things about him that bother me as well, regardless of his overly zealous behavior. He seems to have zero ambition when it comes to his career. I can't stand that. And then there's that sense of humor. Oy!! Just when I think it can't get worse, it does. Again, can't deal with this.
So, that's the bad news. Now on to the good stuff. N!!! He's the cutest! I miss him so much, though. We talk just about every day. Yesterday we were on the phone until 1 in the morning. I just want it to be May so that he can come home! It's interesting, though, b/c now when we talk, we really have to talk b/c we aren't seeing each other in person and just hanging out at a bar or watching TV. It will be interesting to see how this progresses with us in this quasi-long distance relationship situation.
I love hearing your updates and I was actually thinking about PMing you today to see how things went with T-Dawg.
Glad things are going so well with N. That's awesome! My hubby and I did the long distance thing for about a year and it's hard, but the cool thing is that you learn how to really communicate with that person. And it's nice too because you don't have the physical aspect that can kind of...I don't know what the right term is...but the physical aspect of the relationship can really screw up someone's judgment and without that you get to see the relationship for what it really is and (I think) make a better decision about whether or not that person is right. (Hopefully that makes some sense.) Anyway, it sounds like things are going well with N and I'm happy for you!
yay!! im glad things are going well with N. this should give you guys plenty of time to really talk and get to know each other and tell stories. when you see him again, it will be different but should be better if things are right.