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Tashina


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well if you ever read the wedding threads, you have seen my posts about my sisters wedding.  well she is supposed to be getting married next weekend.   my sister and her fiance and his parents were in a car weck over the weekend and the news is really bad.  my sister has 4 broken ribs, broken ankle, fractured wrist and a gash across her scalp that took 12 stiches.  mike broke his neck and a couple of ribs as well but good news for him, it doesn't look like his spinal cord has been damaged.  mike's dad has some bumps and bruises and a broken cheek bone and broken jaw.  but mike's mom still hasn't woken up yet and is on a ventilator.  we are not sure if she is going to be ok.  gosh, i am so pissed at the world right now.  i have been trying to take my mind off of all of this right now, but, it is not working very well.  and with all of the other things that have been going on lately, i wonder if bad luck is like death and allways comes in threes, and if so, i am in for one more.  i don't know what to do with my self.  i have her wedding dress, veil, and shoes all in my bedroom right now ready for a wedding.  this year is  has started off with a bang.  i know i must seem like such a drama queen, but dam.  i am sitting at work feeling like i am being pulled apart by the seems.  i just had to get this stuff out.  thanks.


 


 


well, mike is not going to be paralized but he has at least 6 weeks of bed rest ahead of him and a lot of physical therapy.  my sister is doing ok and mikes dad is doing better as well.  we found out that mikes mom has continued ot have internal bleeding that they can't locate.  it is not severe so they didn't see the first time they did surgery, how do you miss something like that and since when is internal bleeding not severe.  i want to shoot her doctor.  how did he get through medical school.  she did wake up for a few minutes last night, so mike and darby are going to have the wedding in the hospital tomarrow so that just in case she doesn't make it, she can be at the wedding.  i feel really guilty though because now that i know that mike and darby are going to be ok and are doing better, i feel so much relieved, but i shouldn't when marta might die.  i should still be on edge.  but i am not. 

-- Edited by Tashina at 12:28, 2006-01-25



-- Edited by Tashina at 12:36, 2006-01-25

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Oh my gosh, I am so sorry. I can't even imagine how you must be feeling right now. I am praying for you and your family as I type. Try to hang in there.

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I am so sorry! I wish your family the best.


In my experience, bad things always happen in big groups.. But I think the stress you are going through right now should at least count for several bad things all at once. Good luck to you and keep us updated!



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My word woman can you catch a break!?!  I sincerely hope everyone turns out healthy and that this run of awful luck is past you now.




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I am so sorry!  You just have to look at the bright side, everyone is still alive.  It could have been much worse and you were blessed to have everyone make it through.  I hope everyone heals well, and I will be praying for Mike's mom's recovery.  I don't know why bad things happen to good people, I have been struggling a lot with that lately, but you just have to stay strong and good things will come.  Don't believe in those silly superstitions, bad things coming in 3, just try to stay positive and be there for your family as they recover. 

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Oh God, Tashina, I am so sorry about your family's accident! I hope and pray that they will all recover and not be in too much pain...I don't read the wedding threads so haven't seen your other posts, but I hope that whatever else is going on, things will turn around for all of you soon. *hugs*

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That's horrible! You are not a drama queen, this is real drama. I'm so sorry for you & your family - i'll keep you in my thoughts & prayers. Sending good luck vibes your way!

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wow.  i'm really sorry that this stuff is happening to you.  i am sending good vibes your way.  your sister is so fortunate to have you. 



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Wow. that's horrible. I will be praying for all of you for a speedy recovery. I'm so sorry this happened.



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oh how horrible!  i hope that your sister and her fiancee's family all make full and speedy recoveries.  try to stay strong, for your sis' sake.  she's going to need you more than ever.

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Oh my god, how awful!  I hope Mike's mom takes a turn for the better very soon and that everyone else continues to get better.  I'll be keeping all of you in my thoughts.

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Wow. That's terrible! I hope everything turns out and Mike's mom comes around soon. Good wishes from me!

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hugs to you, iam praying for you and your family

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big hugs sweetie - and I've never noticed that bad luck comes in threes. Take care.

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Tashina wrote:

well, mike is not going to be paralized but he has at least 6 weeks of bed rest ahead of him and a lot of physical therapy.  my sister is doing ok and mikes dad is doing better as well.  we found out that mikes mom has continued ot have internal bleeding that they can't locate.  it is not severe so they didn't see the first time they did surgery, how do you miss something like that and since when is internal bleeding not severe.  i want to shoot her doctor.  how did he get through medical school.  she did wake up for a few minutes last night, so mike and darby are going to have the wedding in the hospital tomarrow so that just in case she doesn't make it, she can be at the wedding.  i feel really guilty though because now that i know that mike and darby are going to be ok and are doing better, i feel so much relieved, but i shouldn't when marta might die.  i should still be on edge.  but i am not.  -- Edited by Tashina at 12:28, 2006-01-25 -- Edited by Tashina at 12:36, 2006-01-25

Glad to hear things seems to be going a bit better at least. 


That's so cool that they're going to get married this weekend at the hospital!  It's funny that they are because I was driving to the mall yesterday thinking about your sister and her FH and I was thinking that they should get married this weekend in the hospital if at all possible.  To have lost a dress and to not be able to have the event as they planned is a shame and all, but in the big scheme of things, getting married is the best part.  I'm glad to hear that they're going to do it this weekend.  Good for them! 


I'm still keeping the family in my thoughts and prayers.  It sounds like a nightmare of a situation and I hope it gets better.



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I'm so glad they're doing better - especially Mike. Good luck with the doctors. That is terrible about the bleeding! but I'm glad they think she's otherwise ok. Hugs babe. I can't imagine how hard this is for you and your family and everyone who cares about your family.

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that is good news.  there is nothing wrong with being relieved at that.  sounds like his mom has some rough road ahead but that she will be ok too.  that is so sweet they are getting married in the hospital!!


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Oh my God, I am so sorry this has happened. As if you didn't already have enough on your plate these days. But the important thing is, everyone is still alive, and that is wonderful news. I will keep everyone in my thoughts and be pulling for them. Stay strong and just remember, sooner or later this will pass and things will return to normal. Hugs to you.

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