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Renee


Kenneth Cole

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I'm thinking about you... what a freaky situation. The sooner you get rid of him, the better, he sounds seriously disturbed.

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Chanel

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Are you okay? How did it go?  Please check in with us!!

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Hermes

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I hope you're doing ok - what happened?  I think we are all a little worried about you since he sounds like a ticking time bomb.  Hope it went ok.



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OMG - hope you're ok sweetie!

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Hermes

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Okay, you're starting to freak me out .....


Hope you're okay !



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oh my... i just read your post and i am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO worried about you b/c your EX sounds  EXACTLY like my EX... he used to do horrible things to me when i tried to leave... i ended up breaking up with him over the phone and it was much better for my safety...


i hope you are okay.  please check in with us...



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where are you???? please let us know you are still in one piece...

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Andrea Julia


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I'm starting to get really worried now!  I hope you are just busy and enjoying your new found freedom.  Hope to hear from you soon!

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Good for you, no one deserves to be treated that way. 


I hope you're ok.  Please check in as soon as you get a chance.



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fashionista L


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Thanks for everyones concern. I had my mom come over with me that night so that I wouldn't be alone with him and we packed and boxed all of his stuff. He came over the next morning and he could just not understand why I was breaking it off with him -duh!- but he was really hurt and started crying this was tough for me. He came back this morning and I let him in so he could pack up stuff, he will be by later to get the rest of it with his friend. He did not try to be intimidating to me or mean and cruel as I had expected. I think one of the reasons is because I told him over the phone that this was part of the reason for our breakup. I will keep you ladies updated, thanks for all the encouragement and support I really appreciate it!

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So glad to hear you're okay!  Your life is going to be so much better without this dude in it!!!  I'm sure it's hard right now, but it sounds to me like this guy was bad news. 


Thanks for checking in with us!  We were worried!!!



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I'm glad to hear that it worked out as well as it could have and that you're ok. *hugs*

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Congratulations!  You are so much better off now.  I'm glad to hear that you are safe and well and that everything worked out for the best.

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Good for you!  =)  Please continue to be careful when he comes over to pack up his things.  He sounds like a total creep.  I know this is hard, but you've made a really wise decision and your life is going to be so much better without him.

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so happy for you! that was a really good idea, having your mom come over. I agree with what the other girls said, though, just continue to be careful. but I'm so glad you are rid of him!

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fashionista L wrote:

I sit up and he tells me It looks f@#*ing terrible and I look stup[id and ugly. I just ignore him and tell him I really don't care because I like it. He decides to throw a tantrum and take the bedside table and knock it competely over in a rage. I just lay there and go to sleep. I can't wait to get rid of this lunatic!!
And I just have to say, I know people who act like this don't think like normal human beings, but how can he behave like this towards you and then be completely puzzled when you break off the relationship shortly thereafter? I mean, what planet do people like this come from, that they think this is an acceptable way to treat another human being?

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sage


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I am glad to hear things are ok! Just such a relief to see your post. It will all be okay.

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Just saw this post. My God! I'm glad to hear that you're ok.  I hope that things go well for you. Continue to stay safe and keep us posted.



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i just read this whole thing as well. i'm glad that you are okay. stay safe, girl.

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I'm late here too


but glad to see your making adjustments in your life for the better. Day by day everything will get better. Best of luck to you, I'm sure you'll enjoy your new freedom. take care and keep us posted



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