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fashionista L


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OMG!! It has been such a long time coming and I have finally mustered up the strength to go through with it. I'm a lil' scared of doing it but I'm excited for what awaits me!! I am just happy to be rid of this jerk, who is a total bum, who takes advantage of me, never wants to have sex (sorry a lil personal), and whose basically a sloth on the couch who tries to control me all the time!! OMG, I just had to vent yet again!! I can't wait to be single!! (for a lil while)


 


 


Ok, my plan was that he would be home after I got off work and I would deliver the good news... this didn't work out as expected, he wasn't home he ended up having to work, so I went to my parents house and had dinner. I got home around 11 and he still wasn't home, I was really tired and pretty stressed so I decided to just go to sleep. I wake up around 1 and he's home, mind you I haven't seen him for 5 days because he has been on a fishing trip with his dad, he doesn't say a single thing to me but asks me to sit up, so he can see my hair( I just got it cut 4 days ago in a lil bob style like Paris Hilton's new do, he HATES short hair) I sit up and he tells me It looks f@#*ing terrible and I look stup[id and ugly. I just ignore him and tell him I really don't care because I like it. He decides to throw a tantrum and take the bedside table and knock it competely over in a rage. I just lay there and go to sleep. I can't wait to get rid of this lunatic!! So he was sleeping when I got up for work today and I have not spoken to him since. tONIGHT WILL BE THE NIGHT!! I have yoga class til 9 and then I am breaking the news to him, hopefully he doesn't fip out too much! I am a lil scared, he really need anger management.



-- Edited by fashionista L at 15:18, 2005-09-19

-- Edited by fashionista L at 15:19, 2005-09-19

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GOOD FOR YOU! Life is too short to waste your time with people who are unworthy. Enjoy being single, and really be discerning about the next person you allow into your world. Good Luck!

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I'm sending you good thoughts sweetie - be strong!

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Good luck!  Sounds like you're doing the right thing--I'm sending positive vibes your way1

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Good luck sweets! Even if it sucks, it sounds like you won't regret this decision. Good for you for taking such a proactive step! Keep us posted!

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good for you!!

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Good luck - let us know what happens.

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You go girl! Be strong and don't let him talk you out of it if he tries to. You deserve better than him.
good luck and be sure to let us know what happens.

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I guess it is too late to say good luck... SO..... How did it go?!

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How did it go?? I hope it went as smoothly as breakups can.....

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fashionista L


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I just sent the maintenance man to go change the locks!!

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Good for you!

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Glad to hear about the lock change! Don't let him in. He sounds dangerous. Please report back!!!!!

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ok this is kind of freaking me out.  actually forget the "kind of"--this situation is freaking me the f*** out.  he went into a rage and threw a lamp because you got a haircut?!?!?!?


 


fashionista, right now i'm fearing for your safety.  could you please break up with him over the phone so that you are not in physical danger?



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esquiress wrote:

ok this is kind of freaking me out.  actually forget the "kind of"--this situation is freaking me the f*** out.  he went into a rage and threw a lamp because you got a haircut?!?!?!?   fashionista, right now i'm fearing for your safety.  could you please break up with him over the phone so that you are not in physical danger?

Yes, please please please be careful.  Please let someone know where you are and your plans so that someone can check on you.  This guy sounds dangerous.


And please let us know that you're safe.



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FashionistaL, I had no idea you were in such a horrible situation!  I am so glad you have the strength to walk away from this bad relationship.  I think you should alert the police before breaking it off with him.  I am not necessarily saying to get him in trouble or arrested, just to let the police know you are breaking up with him and you think he might not react well.  I'm told this is what you are supposed to do in this situation.  I wish you luck!  There is a nice guy out there for you and the sooner you end things with your boyfriend, the sooner you can find him.  Please let us know how it turns out!




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Fashionista, are you there?? What happened?

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fashionista L wrote:

I just sent the maintenance man to go change the locks!!
Good.  Have you talked to him yet?  I am freaked out too.  I will be thinking of you--please let us hear from you.

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I hope you are safe and that he leaves without throwing a tantrum or anything. Please let us know.

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I hope you're sound asleep in your bed right now with all the drama over and done with... *fingers crossed*

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