People that answer every single phone call that comes into their cell phone. I think it is so rude when I am out with a friend and mid-sentence their phone rings and they pick it up and get into a 10 minute conversation about something that could have waited until they got home. I mean, at least wait until a lull in conversation and then say, "hey, do you mind if I just quickly call this person back and see what they wanted?" The only time I pick up my cell when I'm out with people is if (a) I think it might be an emergency (b) that person could potentially come meet up with us or (c) if I have been trying to get in touch with them for days (in which case I'd still keep it quick).
"Time outs" as a punishment for kids. Everywhere I go, parents are threatening their kids with "time outs" (my friends included). I have never actually seen a time out take place; I just hear them tell their kids if they keep up whatever bad behavior they are doing, that they will get a time out. And then the kid keeps doing whatever they were doing and the parent keeps saying they are getting a time out and so on and so on. I don't at all advocate hitting children, but I think parents should take away a favorite toy or game for a day or not let the child have a dessert (if they are at a restaurant). My parents never hit, but things like saying they would cancel something fun we were supposed to do or not buy me something they had told me they would (and following through if I kept acting bad), always kept me on my best behavior.
People who get married in a church and have Christening/Communion/Confirmation for their children when they don't even go to church or follow the religion's teachings. And then they will name other people that don't even go to church as the godmother and godfather. What is the point? I think it is an attention thing.
people who walk into an elevator without allowing space for someone to step off first.
I hate this! I also hate when people walk on the wrong side of the sidewalk and expect me to move for them...this also relates to groups of people taking up the entire sidewalk and not moving for me to walk by.
As a driver, I hate pedestrians who just walk out in front of your car, with absolutely no regard to the fact that I am driving a vehicle and could crush them. As a pedestrian I cannot stand drivers who do not let me cross the street even if when I have the right-of-way.
Whenever I say something to my BF, he goes,"Huh?" then immediately responds to what I said. It is just a bad habit of his, which he has even admitted, but it bugs me so much that I made him promise to work on not doing it.
One of supervisors looking over my shoulder as I am working. I am new but I don't feel that I need to be watched over while doing anything that I have already been trained on.
When people need to clear their throat and they keep talking without doing so! It always makes me feel like I need to clear my throat for some reason. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
I also hate when people walk on the wrong side of the sidewalk and expect me to move for them...this also relates to groups of people taking up the entire sidewalk and not moving for me to walk by. As a driver, I hate pedestrians who just walk out in front of your car, with absolutely no regard to the fact that I am driving a vehicle and could crush them.
Ohhh - i hate both of these and I run into the sidewalk thing almost on a daily basis walking to/from the train to work.
* I hate when people talk on their cell phone on the train and the whole train is quiet and you can hear their whole conversation.
* When the train is jam packed in the morning and at the next stop some idiot will ask "can you guys just move in a little bit" does it look like we can?
* People who stare
* When I'm on the phone w/someone and they are talking to someone else in the background
* When I'm on the phone at work and everyone can see the phone to my ear, yet people still try to talk to me like I'm not on the phone! It's even worse when someone stops at my desk and stares at me until I get off the phone.
People who tailgate me too close when I'm driving. I usually drive at the speed limit or a little bit above, so I know that I am not going too slow for them to warrant that behavior. When I am in a bitchy mood, sometimes I purposely drive even slower just to p&#& them off. I'm evil, I know. I just don't understand what the big hurry is, that's all.
Drivers who cut in front of you without signalling, especially when there is no room for them to cut in.
Drivers who cut in front of you and then slow down.
Very slow drivers.
People who make promises they know they don't intend to keep.
People who interrupt you while mid-sentence just to make some stupid, inane observation that has nothing to do with the conversation whatsoever. It's also annoying when they do not apologize for it. My ex-bf was notorious for doing this and it drove me nuts!
People who make a big mess and then don't clean up or pick up after themselves.
Bad customer service at retail stores.
People who wear clothes that are unflattering for their bodies. I see this especially in young girls who wear things that are way too tight or way too short. I don't like to see any unsightly bulges or flab.
People who like to criticize others, but can't take any criticism themselves.
people who send joke/fortune/any sort of "forward this to 8 friends" emails
people who wear flipflops/sandals/shorts in the dead of winter. Its Canada, it's f%cking cold.
Also people who wear flipflops to a formal event or any inappropriate dress at a formal gathering.
people who shuffle when they walk. Pick up your damn feet!
CS that act like you're bothering them when you ask for something.
People who don't pick up their dog's poo at the park. I really love seeing poo everywhere, thanks!
People who think its cool to act stupid and/or ignorant. Also white people who think they are all ghetto and talk in Ebonics or try to fake Patois.
Parents who has misbehaving kids in public who don't do anything about it. I hate people who little brat is screaming bloody murder and throwing things and the mom is just like "no no, honey." and goes back to shopping or whatever.
Guys who try to pretend to be all interested in your conversation but really would rather be nailing you. Do they think I can't see right through them?
Really fat people who complain about their weight or complain about having "bad knees" or something. Yes, your knees are sore because they weren't meant to hold up 400 lbs. And they never do anything about it.
People who tailgate me too close when I'm driving. I usually drive at the speed limit or a little bit above, so I know that I am not going too slow for them to warrant that behavior. When I am in a bitchy mood, sometimes I purposely drive even slower just to p&#& them off. I'm evil, I know. I just don't understand what the big hurry is, that's all.
I HATEEEEEE this and I HATEEEEE when people do this. I HATEEEE when people flash their brights at me, signaling me to get out of their way. It happens on the beltway or 95 all the time to me, coming home from work at night. So sorry that I don't want to drive 100 mph! I'm usually driving the speed limit or 5 miles above, and i know some people like to drive faster, but try to go around me, not get me out of your way! i'm not even usually in the fastest lane unless i have to merge into the left lane (shudder), and then i try as quick as possible to get all the way to the right lane. I should add though that my car has been totaled (a car drove out in front of me and i slammed into it), that my bfs car has been totaled with me in the car (he fell asleep for a split second behind the wheel and we spun out of control and landed in trees), and I've lost control on the beltway, I came over from the shoulder which was dug out for construction (one wheel went over) and started swerving across 4 lanes of traffic going 60 mph on a rainy, dark night. I thought i was going to die 3 times, so needless to say, i almost get panic attacks when someone is on my ass, going 80 mph, making my switch lanes across traffic (i hate looking behind me and switching lanes in the dark). I'm scared i'm going to sweve again and kill us all. i think people should be more understanding of this- not everyone wants to drive above the speed limit- if you do, then pass the driver in a safe fashion. people really don't get how dangerous driving can be and it pisses me off. none of my experiences were my fault so it can happen to anyone, safe driver or not. not to be super negative or anything- but as much as i love the convenience of a car, i think of cars as killing machines, haha.
Lynnie, that is so scary! I also hate when I'm in the left lane to pass someone or whatever and some maniac barrels up behind me and passes me on the right without even giving me a chance to get over. It's so dangerous!
I thought of another one: magazine ads that are on thick pages. It drives me CRAZY that it messes up how the pages lie as I turn them.
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When I am coming off a one-lane ramp and need to merge onto a road and the person behind me on the ramp goes around me. It is so dangerous because it is so unexpected and we end up trying to merge into the same place at the same time. And I am never going slow enough or stop long enough where it is warranted.
Or sort of the same concept: someone ahead of me unexpectedly decides to make a left turn or stop and I can't merge to the next lane right away because there is a car in my way. Then, everyone behind me goes around me because they have the room to merge and won't let me get over to the right lane so then I am trapped behind the stopped person.
Funny, I was just thinking of starting a post on this today!!!
My list is long, but my biggest peeves are:
*people with really bad grammar and spelling (because I'm a huge grammar/punctuation nerd) as stated previously with words like "your" instead of "you're" and "there" instead of "their" etc. and ESPECIALLY when people put "could of" instead of "could've"
*using apostrophes in absolutely everything that ends in an S, especially when it's a business and everyone will see how stupid they are
*people who can't wait 2 more seconds until you've driven by to pull out, so they pull on out and proceed to drive 10 miles an hour
*people who back into parking spaces in a full parking lot, because it conjests traffic even further while we have to wait on their lazy butt to just pull in to the freaking space!
*I hate the blinker thing, too, that someone mentioned on page 1
*people who drag their feet when they walk..... like fingernails on a chalkboard!!!
*gum smackers/ gum poppers who chew like a cow chewing cud
I could go on and on........... Maybe I need to lighten up!
When someone compliments me on something and then comments on how they "wouldn't be able to afford something like that."
this is a pet peeve of mine too! First off, its rude, its a backhanded compliment, and the cost of the item isn't any of their business, plus i hate the jealous undertones. I have two friends that do this to me constantly...URGH. I try not to wear anything nice around them, but one is very nosy about my shopping habits. Plus, theres part of me that is thinking..i make, like, very little money. I'm not an investment banker, i barely have a job, and i buy all my stuff on my own, my parents dont ever buy me things. They probably make just as much, but spend it on other things. So how can they not afford something? Because they can't save up for something? Because that is something entirely different, its not like my friends live in the poor house or something, and are saying it wistfully. No, they are trying to be like, "i have much more important things to spend my money on than clothing." Which reminds me of the Manolo shoe episode with Carrie, where her shoes are taken at the party. Ugh. Rant over.
At work when a customer comes up and hands me a payment for their account still sealed in the envelope after they had been standing in line for more than 3 minutes. Why couldn't they open it when they were waiting? Then they wait and watch me open it, which I absolutely hate since it is sealed with their saliva. Lately, I have been using sissors and taking my sweet ass time to open it (that'll teach 'em, hopefully)!
Oh, the complaining about being overweight. There is this girl at work and all she can talk about is losing weight. What does she have for lunch? A huge meal from Taco Bell! And there is this really really large woman (about as big as you can get before you can't leave the house anymore) and once I saw her in the lunchroom eating as much food as I can eat in at least two days.
Roudy kids and parents who don't even watch their kids in public (I will see little ones wandering off and the parents not giving a damn minding their own business) Later the kids will be crying to find their mom and mom is totally ignoring them while examining stuff to buy.
bumblebee wrote: when people say "great" instead of saying "thank you." i don't care if you f-ing think it is great, where are your manners?! HATE that.
Oooohhhh, I hate that!! It also bothers me when people say "No problem" instead of "Your welcome". Or "No worries". Gaahhhhh!!