you could become less and less attracted to him until finally one night, you roll over and look at him and gnaw off your arm coyote-style to get away OR his wonderful qualities could make you more attracted to him.
This totally cracked me up. I hope you do not wind up gnawing off your own arm.
That being said, if it does turn out that the spark just never shows up, don't beat yourself up about it. I did that both times in my no-chem situations and it was just a waste of time. I think we often try so hard not to be superficial that we can underestimate how essential physical attraction is (at least at the beginning, like DC said).
teehee - nah. I save that for boys that are destined to leave me, hands filled with pie charts and heart filled with mathematical equations as to why it didn't work out.
I know I'm a little late, but I agree that you can keep going without feeling bad. If he got the 'angelic' vibe, he's sensitive enough to tell what you're feeling (at least something like it) and to honor that without you having to verbalize. It took a while for me to start thinking of one guy I dated as bf material. It depends on so many things.