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Hermes

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agree? disagree? got any to add?

Top 10 Annoying Habits at Work

Top 10 Annoying Habits at Work

A big part of many jobs is to collaborate effectively with others. That's tough to do if your colleagues and supervisors find you irritating. And it's easier than you might think to rub people the wrong way, even when you're sitting at your desk minding your own business.

Jen Star of The Jennifer Group, a New York City-based recruiting firm that specializes in placing and maintaining support staff, cites 10 surefire ways to become a workplace annoyance:

1. You're Unprepared

"Showing up for meetings, interviews or arranged work sessions without the equipment or data that you need demonstrates a lack of respect for your coworkers and yourself," Star says. "And it wastes time. Get off on the right foot, and make like a scout and be prepared."

2. You're Not a Team Player

"You have to be willing to pitch in when another member of the team needs help," Star says. "There's nothing more annoying than watching somebody do a crossword puzzle while you're buried in work." And if a coworker needs a little time off to run an important errand, be flexible and help out when you can, she suggests.

3. You're Not Self-Reliant

Ask for help only when you really need it. "Giving up on the paper jam after only one try and expecting a coworker to fix it because you know she can does not contribute to good team spirit," Star says. Try everything you can to solve your own problem before involving somebody else.

4. You, Umm, Smell

Your scent is important, especially when you're working in a small, poorly ventilated space with lots of other people around. Be considerate of your neighbors by taking care not to generate strong smells that will permeate their space.

For instance, don't eat eggs or onions in the office, Star suggests. And if you smoke, be sure you air yourself out before you walk back in the office. The same goes for colognes. "Fragrance is a very personal choice, so it should be reserved for those who are close to you, not 20 yards away," she says.

5. You're Loud on the Phone

Loud telephone conversations can be offensive to your neighbors, so try to keep your voice low and even. And keep personal calls short. "Phone fights or, worse yet, phone foreplay can really drive one up a wall after a certain point," Star says. "Remember that you are not in your living room."

6. You're Unhealthy

If you're sick, stay home. If you have the sniffles or must come in, cover your mouth and do whatever you can to avoid infecting your coworkers.

7. You Walk Like an Elephant

Try to move around the office quietly to avoid disturbing the people around you. And if you must speak to another colleague, keep your voice down.

8. Your Cellphone Is Always On

Unless absolutely necessary, cellphones should be turned off while you're in the office. If you need to keep your phone on, use a soft or silent ringer or vibrate mode.

9. Your Computer Volume Is Blasting

Nobody wants to hear somebody else's bells and whistles when they're trying to concentrate.

10. You Shake Hands Like a Fish and Avoid Eye Contact

"When somebody won't look me in the eye or give me some energy in their handshake, I feel like they're avoiding me or snubbing me in some way," Star says. "I like a firm handshake and a friendly smile."



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Kenneth Cole

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Agreed. Or how about the person that has no sense of deadlines and makes you look bad when everything's late? That's my current irk.

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5. You're Loud on the Phone

Loud telephone conversations can be offensive to your neighbors, so try to keep your voice low and even. And keep personal calls short. "Phone fights or, worse yet, phone foreplay can really drive one up a wall after a certain point," Star says. "Remember that you are not in your living room."

6. You're Unhealthy

If you're sick, stay home. If you have the sniffles or must come in, cover your mouth and do whatever you can to avoid infecting your coworkers.

 

Totally a problem at my job!  We have an "open floor plan" meaning there are barely any offices or walls.  All noises carry so it is almost impossible to think deeply or have phone meeting while hearing constant chattering and LOUD phone calls all day.  Also, my next door neighbor was a repeat offender, coming in with a big bottle of DayCare and leaving the rest of the staff calling out sick the following week.  It got to the point where I brought it up to her manager who then sent her home for a couple of days.

I want to add:

11. You eat smelly stuff at your desk
If you want to enjoy a tuna sandwich, chinese food, or  last night's lamb curry please don't eat at your desk.  I gag.

 



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Maat wrote:

Agreed. Or how about the person that has no sense of deadlines and makes you look bad when everything's late? That's my current irk.




Ugh I totally agree on that



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One of my peeves is people that are just plain loud - not just on the phone. The last office I worked at had people talking at the top of their lungs outside my open door, in sight of me, while I was on the phone with clients. I would flail my arms to try to get them to go away or quiet down and they were just totally oblivious. I suppose I should have put clients on hold to ask these people to tone it down, but it was never that convenient.

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I'm glad to see someone else complaining about these because some people might think that a few of these are nit-picky.  I don't.  Granted, I have ADHD, so I notice every little peep.  But, even for those individuals who are oblivious, I think all these little blips add up. One's high threshold may not be so high after day in and day out of clodhopping, sniffling, blabbing, etc.

I guess this is part of the phone thing, but people who always use speakerphone to make calls, and the volume is up so loud people can hear it many doors away.  Even if you have it on speakerphone just while the phone rings (before the person picks up), it's annoying. That means I have to hear not only my phone ringing, but your phone and the person's phone you're calling.

Sometimes I swear I was on the set of Jumanji with the way some people walk down the hall.

And, D, I agree with the loud in general thing. I worked with 3 people nearby who talked so freaking loudly.  One had that raspy, party girl, Molly Shannon-voice with a Janice laugh.  Ugh!

I always felt like the b*tthole of the office cuz I had to shut my door so often.  I'm glad I had a door.



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I have to admit: I was the girl who came to the office sick last week. And I sniffled and coughed and blew my nose and took DayQuil all the live long day. We don't get sick days so....you kind of just have to tough it out unless you want to use one of your few vacation days. I think I got my manager sick though - ugh!

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pollyjean - one of my loud talkers was raspy too. I think they really just like to hear themselves talk.

There's another loud talker type that REALLY gets on my nerves. The "authoritarian." Like, the types that if you ask them a question they answer really loudly so everyone can hear that they know the answer in an effort to make themselves feel important and noticed. It's just so annoying and there's really nothing you can say. I hate that.

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How about this one...

the person who has has a habit of answering ALL questions within earshot, even when they're directed at someone in particular. I have a repeat offender who answers all questions that start with "Hey Christina" before I can even open my mouth.

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D wrote:

9. Your Computer Volume Is Blasting

Nobody wants to hear somebody else's bells and whistles when they're trying to concentrate.




...or their Pandora station.



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Suasoria wrote:

D wrote:

9. Your Computer Volume Is Blasting

Nobody wants to hear somebody else's bells and whistles when they're trying to concentrate.




...or their Pandora station.



ugh! I hate when people play music!  I find it so distracting.  I was never the type that was able to play the radio while studying either.

xtina --  seriously?!?  well, they obviously feel inferior to you and want to take any opportunity to try to demonstrate that they might know something you don't...



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I most hate it when you are allowed to play music and you sing loudly. Your colleagues are working. Might as well be considerate-- that's why you wear earphones in the first place. BUT dont sing with it.



-- Edited by D on Thursday 24th of March 2011 07:59:01 AM

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