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killa


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Girls,

I met the most wonderful boy 1.5 weeks ago.
I actually picked him up in a bar! hee hee
I thought he was cute and looked like Stephen from "Laguna Beach," and we talked for about an hour ... it was a great conversation.

Then he asked for my number. I gave it to him, hoping he would call, but not really dwelling.
Turns out I didn't have to wait! He called me the next day at noon.

We talked nearly every night (he would call) and then we finally made plans for a first date last week. We got a bottle of wine and sat in the grass on a lake and talked and kissed.
It was awesome!

After that we saw each other Friday night and Saturday he took me to Coldplay ... everything was perfect. He told me tons of nice things. Always telling me that he can't wait to see me again, I am so beautiful, etc., etc.

Now I like him. A lot.
And I am starting to feel uneasy about it.
So afraid he's going to leave me at some point.

I know it has only been a week and he does act like he really likes me.
But I am so scared!!

If he doesn't call me back fast enough or something, I start to freak out.
(I would never let on that I am)

Is this normal??
Do you girls feel like this when you first start seeing someone?

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Tati


Chanel

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Yes its normal, enjoy  all the attention and everything that hes doing and treating you. I hope if works out for you.


what a great date at the lake!



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blubirde


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oh god yes, it's normal!! You're talking to a seriously high-level OCD person. But I think you could call him once in awhile, don't you? (When you're kind of freaking out.) It wouldn't hurt anything.


But I hear you. It's so scary when you realize you really like someone. You never know how it's going to work out or if it's going to work out. I hope it does though!



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crystal


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oh, i'm totally in the same situation right now!  i totally like this guy, but i'm scared to death he will suddenly stop calling.  he seems interested enough & calls me & asks for dates & stuff, but i feel like i'm holding my breath for his next call & it's SO PAINFUL!!  i do call him tho, but i think i may do so too often, so this last time we spoke & he said he would call me i decided to let him & that was saturday.   best of luck girl, i'm right there w/ ya!

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killa


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Yay!

He just called me! We're going to hang out tonight.
I am sooo excited!!

Now, tomorrow, the waiting will start all over again...

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blubirde


Chanel

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killa wrote:

Yay! He just called me! We're going to hang out tonight. I am sooo excited!! Now, tomorrow, the waiting will start all over again...

Remember Bridget Jones how she keeps checking her voicemail? That's what this reminds me of. So hilarious! If you've read the book you know it's so much worse than the movie....


Congrats on hanging out! I hope it goes well!!



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crystal


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killa wrote:

Yay! He just called me! We're going to hang out tonight. I am sooo excited!! Now, tomorrow, the waiting will start all over again...
aw, so jealous!  still waiting here...

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