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beachgirl · Kenneth Cole

Sad

esquiress · Marc Jacobs

oh beachgirl, you poor thing! i so hate him for you right now! and i know what you mean about mind games working even though you recognize them. just stay strong, you're destined for better than this, you know you are. just have faith and keep on keeping on. we are here for you!

also, where do you live? maybe one of us who lives near you can help w/ the roomate search.

Christine · Coach

(((big hugs)))

Beachgirl, this must be so incredibly difficult for you. I got so sad after reading this post - I think I am just sad about the situation and about how he treated you. We are all here for you and we know that you will find someone who treats you like the wonderful person you are.

Hang in there!

lynnie · Chanel

Can you move in with a friend or your family for a while? No one wants to deal with that, and he is being really insensitive and cold. My friend had a really bad breakup (screaming, him getting a new gf within a week) and it would have been so much better if she had washed her hands clean of him and got away asap, not answering any of his phone calls or seeing him on occasion. As painful as it is, this will be so much better in the long run because he's not convincing you to come back to him, thus playing on all your weaknesses, and is instead giving you more reasons to be done with him. I'm sorry though

Tati · Chanel

so sorry to hear about what your going through. try to stay strong and positive (especially in front of him

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rocky · Coach

I admire your strength in ending a long relationship when you see that it is bad for you, not all people can do that. I am sorry he is being an A-hole right now, but things will get better!

killa · Dooney & Bourke

I am so sad for you, too!
Wow, that is tough.

If I were you, I would try to keep as busy as humanly possible. Lean on your friends and family as much as you can, even if you have to do it over the phone. Surround yourself with positive things, the people you love and the things you love (even though it might not sound appealing).
Also, don't let him see you upset (or see you at all, if possible — maybe it would be good for him to wonder where YOU are sometimes).

Hang in there, sweetie.

Someday, this will all be behind you and you will be on top of the world!!
You will.

You'll get there. I know it's unthinkable right now, but it will happen.

Take care, kiddo.

laken1 · Hermes

I'm so sad for you too - this is so hard, i know. I know it doesn't help 100% for us to keep telling you that you deserve better, but boy, it is SO TRUE. I always think you can tell so much about a person by how they handle a break up, and he is definatley showing himself unworthy. When similar things have happened to me in the past I look back on it & think - how lucky was I to be rid of someone who could be that cold. I hope you can look at it that way & know that he doesn't deserve you. You need to get out of there & heal & you are going to be SO MUCH BETTER. We are thinking of you {{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

Dizzy · Marc Jacobs

What a jerk! I am so sorry you are going through this! I hope you can find somewhere else to go. But if not, be strong! You're going to come out of this just fine, and he will still be a total creep. Hang in there!

blubirde · Chanel

i'm so sorry! i can't imagine having to live with the person you're breaking up with, especially in your situation. it must be so terrible. but you know what? he's making it easier for you. the jerkier he is and the meaner he is, the more you know you're doing the right thing. think how much more difficult it would be if he was apologizing, begging, being sweet, etc.

and you do deserve so much more. he's a bad person, plain and simple. you don't deserve to be surrounded by bad people. you are so much more than that.

(((hugs))) soon things will start getting better.