well, basically yesterday he said that he is going to be too busy w/ travelling for work for the next month (he really is, he showed me his "calender" *gasp*) and if I wanted to persue other relationships it would be cool w/ him, but he wasn't cuz he is interested in persuing something w/ me...even though he has no time to see me :P he's in a sucky situation, his work just makes him travel like crazy and have no life for the month of April.
I told him that I won't be actively looking right now for other relationships since I will be goin to California for 10 days this month (yay!) and when I get back I will be super busy on the weekends anyway trying to get my life in order so I can move by June 1.
so basically we left it off if it's meant to be it will be down the road. I'm very content w/ this and hey, if I meet someone new that's cool enough I'm certainly open to it! :)
he also called last nite at 3am and we talked for a long while, we got our feelings out in the open which is cool and I just feel great about us now, even if nothing becomes of it in the future and it ends up fizzling out. That's fine. I'm just glad that we were both open w/ each other finally :)
BTW, we're totally not "back together" that was just the drunken-ness in me talking! :)
oh yeah! and he wanted to see me tonight since it will be the last time I can see him for a month, and I declined because I made other plans w/ the girls for tonight. :)
quote: Originally posted by: detroit "LOLA! ...I love ya, but I just want to smack you upside the head "
Hahaha that's exactly how I felt when I read this last night and I decided not to respond right away and wait to see what Lola had to say this morning!
At least you guys are being open and laid-back about everything. And I'm glad you didn't ditch your girlfriends for him!
I think you know we only want you to be happy and avoid heartbreak...
I'm glad you guys had a talk, but still be cautious... a lot of us recognize the red flags from experience, and like I said, we only want you to be happy
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