I got highlights this weekend and hate the result.
I went to my usual colorist, showed this pic, it was actually something we had done before, she consulted the colors she used in the past and used the same ones again.
She went really heavy on the "lowlight" color which is darker than my natural color and I feel like I'm left as a brunette with a few chunky highlights ala Kelly Clarkson 2002. (see attachment)
While I have been getting compliments (maybe out of pity)... the look isn't "me". I've been using Head and Shoulders to fade the lowlight color in hopes of having it blend better and look more natural.. am I wasting my time? Any other tips? I'd like to minimize damage and am scared of any color removal. Also am hesitant to return to the stylist since she's more than an hour away from me...
I think that your hair does look quite a bit like Cameron Diaz, but if you don't like it, you don't like it.
You might be wasting your time. The more pigment you wash out of your lowlights, is also pigment (perhaps if a toner was applied) that is in your highlight. It looks like pretty good contrast was achieved, so I don't think there's much you can do.
If you are feeling brave, you could go buy a box of semi-permanent color at the drug store in a color you like and just apply it with your fingertips to your most stripy strands. I've done that before and it's pretty harmless.
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First of all, snap, I was suppose to take a pic of my hair for you and totally forgot... please forgive me. You should've pm'ed me and reminded me. But it looks like it might not of helped anyway.
And it seems to me the biggest difference is that the color she did is much more ashy than golden like Cameron's and she definitely went heavy on the lowlights.
I think I'd call the stylist and express your dissatisifaction and see what she says. Tell her it isn't golden enough and see what she says. If she seems unwilling on the phone or tries to convince you that it's fine then I would save the trip but if she's willing to work with you I'd totally go and make her fix it. She's working for you baby! I've had to go back and have my hair stylist tweak things before even though I've been going to her for years. But she always fixes it to my liking. HTH! And I hope it gets fixed the way you like.
PS. I think she needs more of the golden blonde in your bangs than the darker color, that alone will help it seem blonder.
I agree with calling your colorist. If she's someone that you have an on-going relationship with, then she wants to keep you happy as a customer. She'll be glad you called to get it fixed to your satisfation.