When and where is the wedding? Geographic location and umm, what's the word...forget it...Inside or outside? heels would be an issue outside depending on grass v. patio....
nice dress. it's a nice blue. Maybe silver shoes? there's tons out now. not black, too harsh.
i second j's suggestion of the silver shoes. if i remember correctly you are having a beach wedding, right? maybe a simple low silver thong?
are you getting the jewelry or leaving that up to them? i think you could do simple silver jewelry or you could use that opportunity to incorporate some color, like pink or coral stones would look really pretty with that color dress for a beachy wedding.
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