You sound like you have got it all under countrol.
I had my shower yesterday and everyone asked if I'm nervous. It's all almost done. You know you've planned it all, you know at least one thing won't be exactly what you pictured, otherwise, it'll be a delicious, wonderful, gorgeous party and you and your husband(by then) will be the center of attention!
You're schedule sounds just perfect. Impressed you've already had 2 dress fittings. I had my 1st last week and it was a minor, minor disaster. took a whole roll of pix so we could see all the little things....
the closer it gets (6 weeks from this past saturday) the less I care about the details...(last point from above notwithstanding)...like my disgusting sister-in-law-to-be can fall out of her dress for all I care...before I was concerned, now...not so much.
GOOD LUCK! I already can't wait for the after-postings!!!!!