a little intoxicated. (plus considering it's 4 am it's too late to call anyone) but i just had a really great first date and i'm so happy! the guy is really great so i hope it works out. myabe i won't end up a spinster, but alas i don't want to be too optimsitic.
ahhh I wish I had been up at 4am so I could share your joy! That is so so awesome!! I love to see my fellow spinsters getting out there and having a good time.
bluebirde, he went to law school with a friend of mine. it was just a really good time b/c he was really easy to talk to and we did something that i normally don't get to do that often -- go to a live show. plus he's a really, really nice guy.
it's funny b/c one of my new years resolutions was to stop pining after guys who are aloof, semi anti-social and all together drive me crazy (like my former crush). when i first met him there was another guy at the bar who was i drawn to (i.e. he was aloof) and i was just like f* it i'm going to talk to someone else. and that's how i met the guy i went out with. i'm really excited but don't want to read too much into it, though we are going to go out again on sat or sun. so my fingers are crossed.
quote: Originally posted by: honey "bluebirde, he went to law school with a friend of mine. it was just a really good time b/c he was really easy to talk to and we did something that i normally don't get to do that often -- go to a live show. plus he's a really, really nice guy. it's funny b/c one of my new years resolutions was to stop pining after guys who are aloof, semi anti-social and all together drive me crazy (like my former crush). when i first met him there was another guy at the bar who was i drawn to (i.e. he was aloof) and i was just like f* it i'm going to talk to someone else. and that's how i met the guy i went out with. i'm really excited but don't want to read too much into it, though we are going to go out again on sat or sun. so my fingers are crossed."
Isn't that funny about your ny's resolution? I'm also attracted to men who are "hard to get" if you will. The second someone becomes unavailable, either emotionally or physically, I want them. What sense does that make?
I have a friend who always tells me the way to change your outlook/experiences/current life situation/or whatever you want to call it, is to do different things than you normall do, i.e. going for a different type guy and doing an activity you don't normally do. Looks like it worked for you!
You'll have to let us know how the 2nd date goes - I'm excited for you!
Honey, just read this and I'm thrilled for you! You deserve someone good in your life. I'm thinking positive thoughts for you and hope your next date is just as fab. You're a catch, so you definitely won't end up a spinster, no worries there
Have fun and keep us posted!
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