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crystal


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hey ladies so i just wanted to gush about the new guy i'm seeing, but first the rant:


so this guy found me on myspace & turns out we have mutual friends (kinda) & have hung out a time or two in the past.  i remembered him & he never showed any interest in me in the past & after talking a while i discovered that he works nearby & thought he'd be a cool friend.  we agreed to have lunch sometime but after a few emails he started asking my weekend plans which i told him were filled.  so that was friday, now today he emailed me to see how my weekend was & i told him & after a few back & forths he says we should go out for drinks.  i told him i don't go out during the week cuz i'm too busy & can't get up in the morning & also i filled him in on the fact that i'm "seeing someone" (my exact words) & wouldn't feel right getting drinks w/ him w/o telling him that.  i told him that if he didn't want to talk anymore that was ok, but if he does i'm still down for lunch.  i didn't seriously think he wouldn't want to talk anymore, but whaddaya know:


who cares if your seeing someone. Im sure he is sleeping with quite a
few other girls.  lol   Everyone is seeing someone.   But honestly i'm
just not into it anymore.  Made it too complicated.   Good luck.


i was kinda shocked, but resisted the urge to write back an angry email & have decided to just end contact.  ugh, why can't guys ever just be friends???


so onto the rave, i've been seeing this guy (same guy mentioned above) for 2 weeks now & he is sooooo sweet.  he lives about 2 hours away but has come up the past two weekends to see me.  this weekend he made me dinner and breakfast.  he announced that he is going to start calling me sweetie & babe now (kinda weird to tell me, but cute too) & he's gonna try & take v-day off so he can spend more time w/ me!  he's too cute & i'm really happy, just wanted to share!



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Elle


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Glad you found out that guy from Myspace was a freak before you went to meet him ! 


Yay about your new guy!  He sounds really sweet, and V-Day will be a perfect excuse to get together!  Hope it continues to go well !



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Tara


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Crystal - I HATE this guy!  The myspace dude sounds awful - you are better off not meeting him!!!!


Yeah, your new man sounds super sweet!



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Originally posted by: crystal
"who cares if your seeing someone. Im sure he is sleeping with quite afew other girls.  lol   Everyone is seeing someone.   But honestly i'mjust not into it anymore.  Made it too complicated.   Good luck."

Guys are such the passive-aggressive jerks sometimes! Why not just say what he means? He could have said: "I'm disappointed but maybe I'll catch you on the fly sometime" and completely saved face. As is you know he's a jerk with not a lot of self-confidence. He gave himself away with that response. You're probably right to just end communication - he couldn't handle anything else and might as well let him be the spoilsport, not you. Ugh. Boys.


BUT, on the brightside, your new guy sounds fab! I hope Valentine's day is great for you. Good luck and keep us updated with any craziness!


And they say girls are psycho...



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crystal


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haha, blubirde, ur post made me laugh "catch u on the fly sometime"!  thanks to all of u for ur support, hope u all have wonderful v-days too!

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you are totally being the bigger person by just writing that myspace guy off w/o giving him a piece of your mind--i don't know if i would be that mature in that situation.  i really hate when men do that--they feel rejected but have to save face by making it your fault--"just too complicated"--ugh, whatever, dude. 

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Originally posted by: crystal
"  i told him i don't go out during the week cuz i'm too busy & can't get up in the morning & also i filled him in on the fact that i'm "seeing someone" (my exact words) & wouldn't feel right getting drinks w/ him w/o telling him that.  i told him that if he didn't want to talk anymore that was ok, but if he does i'm still down for lunch.  i didn't seriously think he wouldn't want to talk anymore, but whaddaya know: who cares if your seeing someone. Im sure he is sleeping with quite afew other girls.  lol   Everyone is seeing someone.   But honestly i'mjust not into it anymore.  Made it too complicated.   Good luck. ::"

Yuck!  What a mean e-mail!  Who is he to say your guy is sleeping with a few other girls?  And then he said it was complicated?  What is complicated about it?  Seems pretty simple to me:  you are dating someone and wanted this guy to know before he started thinking you were going on a date.  Sounds considerate to me.  He's acting like you want him and he's turning you down or something.  "But honestly I'm just not into it anymore.  Made it too complicated" sounds like something you would say in response to someone who is playing games that make it not worth it to date them anymore.  You never wanted to date him in the first place.  How can he act like he is rejecting you when you already rejected him!!!!???????  You are right not to write back to him.  He is a psycho.


Good luck with the new guy though!  He sounds pretty sweet.



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jess


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What an ass! Definitely doesn't deserve a respone.


Good luck with the other guy, he sounds like a sweetie!



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Lola


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good luck w/ the new guy he sounds super sweet! :) did you meet him on myspace too?



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crystal


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haha, thanx lola, no i didn't meet him on myspace.  he's a friend of my cousin's boyfriend.  it's funny tho cuz i just ran into this guy on myspace that i had a major crush on in HS.  we had a brief fling (and by fling, i mean we kissed once) but i dunno what happened.  he was a year or two older so he graduated & i never saw him again.  we've been myspace-emailing tho & now i'm kicking myself for already being in a relationship... cuz how cute would it be for me to get back w/ my "high school sweetheart"??  oh & this other hottie m-emailed me, but after 2 emails he drifted away...

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Originally posted by: crystal
"haha, thanx lola, no i didn't meet him on myspace.  he's a friend of my cousin's boyfriend.  it's funny tho cuz i just ran into this guy on myspace that i had a major crush on in HS.  we had a brief fling (and by fling, i mean we kissed once) but i dunno what happened.  he was a year or two older so he graduated & i never saw him again.  we've been myspace-emailing tho & now i'm kicking myself for already being in a relationship... cuz how cute would it be for me to get back w/ my "high school sweetheart"??  oh & this other hottie m-emailed me, but after 2 emails he drifted away... "




Oooh get the last one back! lol! you can never have too many myspace crushes! :)



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