i tried it again (broke it up into pieces b/c i thought it was too large) and it's still getting bounced back
this is what it says
- These recipients of your message have been processed by the mail server:stylethread@stylethread.com; Failed; 5.2.2 (mailbox full) Remote MTA n015.sc0.cp.net: SMTP diagnostic: 552 RCPT TO:<stylethread@stylethread.com> max message size exceeded