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Gucci

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When I hang out with my best girlfriend J, we usually end up at our favorite bar and we inevitably meet guys.  We don't really even try but guys always come over to hangout with us. J is single (I am not) so alot of the time I end up being her "wingman" and talking to her guy's friend. Rarely does my bf hangout with us (he plays recreational hockey so those nights are girl time) but sometimes hanging out and flirting with these other guys gets to be a bit of a turn-on. By no means do I want to breakup with my bf or date other guys, I just love the attention that a guy gives you when he trying to impress you. Is that weird? I always go home to my bf and it never gets past friendly flirting but I love having my ego stroked like that. Its so selfish, I'd hate it if my bf had girls throwing themselves at him. Should I try to curb it, for his sake?



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I would cue him in on what happens but as long as you are playing wing woman and keep those boundaries up i am not sure if he would mind. My guy would probably feel flattered that I was getting picked up but that I love him enough to just brush it off.

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My BF usually considers it a compliment when other guys try to hit on me (ummmm yeah, neck kissing frog types aside...). I would probably see how he feels about guys flirting with you and if he's comfortable with it, then why not? You're not breaking any boundaries so long as he knows that you're not going to actually do anything with the guys you flirt with.

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Girl, flirting is fun!!! There's nothing wrong with flirting - you can flirt with the deli guy, the UPS man, even the telemarketer! If it makes you feel good and you aren't doing anything wrong, don't worry about it. Besides, if it gets your engines revved and you go home to him, he probably appreciates it and doesn't even know it!

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Chanel

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If its harmless flirting, then dont worry about it.

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As long as you don't act on it, flirting is fine!

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Hermes

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As long as it stays innocent, why not? 

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Chanel

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It is just harmless flirting....any it strokes your ego...nothing wrong with that..

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