I want to first say that this is a great community that you guys have here...though I don't post often myself, I learn a lot about refining my style. I see that some of you are on myspace...I just joined and I would really like to meet some girls there instead of only guys, which has been my experience so far.
Its like Friendster and others like that. Just set up a profile and make friends. Its kinda fun and some of us have some pretty funny stories about it (Re: Jess's story in relationships forum)