ok, it's ok. don't freak. just pretend you're looking at this situation from the outside in and follow the advice you'd give to a friend in this situation. like if it was one of us, what would you tell us to do? and aj, don't you dare flip a coin and let it decide for you. this is too big for that. just focus. you can decide. i know you can.
oh and imo, you should take the job, but you already knew that i think.