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Deuce


Dooney & Bourke

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Argh, It never fails to happen. I am single and have been since Mayish of 2005. So I am just going along fine and filally decide thay I want to date again, and nothing. Lots of mini crushes and guys that I would date, and even a few that I am pretty sure are into me, but still nothing. So I run Into a friend I used to work with. He is so cute but at the time we were both dating other people. So now we are both single and decide to go out. At first I thought it would just be fun... well we get along pretty well and I like him even more. But we work opposite shifts. when I am getting off he Is going in and I have to be sleeping by the time he gets off.


So all of the sudden I am in demand (haha). I am getting asked out quite a bit (for me at least). Even my major crush had been asking about me at work (I had been out of the office for 2 weeks for training). So now I am back and things are definitely in the works but he is shy and things are going so slow. Why, Why, Why does this always happen to me...nothing and then all of the sudden too many boys. I do not really like to date several guys at once, I really dont have the time or the attention span for 2 guys.


Reading this It sounds kinda dumb almost like complaining about having too many cute shoes, but I cant handle dating 2 at once.


I know I will be posting again in a few weeks trying to decide on boys. sheesh what a delima. Sorry just needed to vent, the rambeling is over.


 



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blubirde


Chanel

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My roommate used to always tell me "feast or famine, blubirde, feast or famine." She was single all during college while I had the serious boyfriend so I never really knew what she meant. When I was single, I totally got it! You either have 6 thousand boys interested in you at the same time or you have none. That's just the way it is. The answer? Enjoy the attention. Book your calendar with dates with different boys. It may seem hard but trust me, the bad ones will get weeded out VERY quickly. And you'll always have something to do so you don't waste time pining after one boy, when every girl knows that's counter productive to the beginning of potential relationships.


I think it's karma's way of rewarding us for some good deed we've done.



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nicoley


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I completely agree with blubirdie.... It may seem hard to squeeze them both in to your busy schedule, but definitely enjoy the attention, it may be easy for me to say, but as a single girl right now, I would be thrilled to have two guys, that I actually like, to be after me :)  And you never know, you may find out quickly that one of the guys is totally not for you... Keep us updated, I hope to hear good things in the future!



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