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RyanJ


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Okay- you don't even have to read this. I just needed somewhere to vent and complain.

I am in a pissy mood and just wanted to complain about it. I don’t want to be thinking about this all weekend and have my weekend be ruined because of it.

My boyfriend is a groom’s man for a “friend” of his and the wedding is tomorrow. Okay, my first issue w/ this is that my boyfriend is basically just filler for the wedding. The groom needed an extra groom’s man so he asked my BF. My BF met this guy senior year of high school. He was new to our area and went the same church as my BF. They were also going to the same school and had the same major so their parents kind of “set the up”. They hung out a few times, but never really became friends. I have been dating my BF for 5 years and he has never hung out w/ this guy outside of school. The 1st thing that pisses me off is that my BF was not even invited to the bachelor party. He is a freakin groom’s man and he is not asked to the bachelor party? That seems really shitty to me. The 2nd thing that pisses me off is that the tuxes for the wedding were $300.00 (not to mention so ugly).

So to recap my BF shelled out $300.00-not including shoes that he had to buy- take off early for work twice, so he could be in a wedding of a guy that he kind of knows. And my BF wasn’t even invited to the bachelor party. I know my BF should had just said “no” to this guy in the first place, but he is kind of a push over (which is a whole different issue). I still think this guy is taking advantage of my BF.

I am also a pissed because my BF never even invited me to the wedding. No, I don’t want to go. I am not a big fan of weddings to begin w/ and especially for people I don’t even know. I would just be sitting w/ his parents all night while my BF would be at the head table, but I still think he at least could have asked.

Another problem I have- the wedding is tomorrow (Saturday) @ around 6:00. He is suppose to be @ the church at about 4:30. About a month ago my BF agreed that he would go somewhere w/ me tomorrow. I have something kind of important to do and I wanted him to go w/ me. He called me about a half-hour ago and told me that he will not be able to go because he has to practice dancing w/ the bride’s maid he will be walking down the aisle with. The bride and groom want the wedding party to dance w/ them at the wedding, so my boyfriend is going to practice for a little while tomorrow.

So now my BF who was suppose to go somewhere w/ me- instead is going to be practicing dancing alone w/ some girl for a wedding that he should have never even been asked to be in and is costing him way too much. I trust my BF and am not worried that anything is going on- I am just pissed and a little jealous that he is going to be spending time w/ her and on this wedding when he should be w/ me.

Sorry this is so long, but I just wanted to bitch and get if off my chest. I hate talking to my mom or sister about this stuff, because they blow it way out of proportion. My mom always gets upset and thinks we are breaking up.


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rosie_the_riveter


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wow that does suck...I'm sorry to hear that but look at it this way - he'll have some serious making up to do.

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That sucks - some people are such users! I can't believe they didn't invite him to the bachelor's party.

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I'm sorry.  That does suck.  On the plus side you should be happy he didn't go to the bachelor's party.  I am against those and really don't feel comfortable with the idea of my guy going to them after he told me all about the last one he went to.  He will be lucky if he has his own!


At least the wedding is now over and you won't have to deal with these people again.



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Ugh. I'm with lsubatgirl. At least the wedding's over and you can put it behind you. But still! I hate when you can't "get mad" at the situation but you're really mad at the situation!


How'd it all end up?



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it's great that it's all over.  when my bf got in the dog house (long story, but basically missed a pre-arranged dinner with my dad because he had sooo much work to do, with his bosses) it sucked, but he made it up to me for like a week straight!!!  so maybe there's some nice dinners, etc.... coming your way.



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Originally posted by: blubirde

How'd it all end up? "


He went to the wedding and was miserable. He said he felt so akward because no one the bridal party excpet fpr the groom knew him. He said he didn't even know how to around the groom or what to say. He called me @ about 9:00 P.M from the reception and asked me how long I thought he would have to stay I told him "All night Sucka!" and then just hung up the phone- that was fun. I am glad it is all over and I don't have to hear anymore about the wedding.

I just sent him an email w/ a picture of a purse and shoes I want.

Thanks for letting me vent everyone.

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" He went to the wedding and was miserable. He said he felt so akward because no one the bridal party excpet fpr the groom knew him. He said he didn't even know how to around the groom or what to say. He called me @ about 9:00 P.M from the reception and asked me how long I thought he would have to stay I told him "All night Sucka!" and then just hung up the phone- that was fun. I am glad it is all over and I don't have to hear anymore about the wedding. I just sent him an email w/ a picture of a purse and shoes I want. Thanks for letting me vent everyone. "

 


I loved your reply to his question!



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