remember my post with the topic " upset and need advice" well last night me and my boyfriend decided to end things and even though i know we didnt go well together, im heartbroken and cant stop crying. this is the first time ive ever been upset to let a guy go. please help me! any suggestions on how to feel better?? im going shopping on saturday and getting my hair cut next weekend...but i need something to help me today, ya know?
hey bri, i broke up w/ my bf the day b4 NYE. i was comfortable w/ him but knew it wasn't meant to be so i ended it. it was hard being alone on NYE but all i can suggest is spend time w/ friends u may have been neglecting due to the black whole known as "relationship" that sucks up all ur time. also, keep busy! i joined a gym a few days after & also went on a really intensive 3 week diet so my time has been filled w/ working out & cooking! i don't think about him that much at all, in fact i'm too busy checking out hotties at the gym! plus i look better now so my confidence has gone up & i'm excited about meeting the next guy. good luck & u know u always have us to vent to!
I know exactly what you're going through. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years in early November. Even though I ended everything, it was so hard and I was an emotional basketcase. Like crystal said, friends and family will make you feel a lot better. I would also recommend not talking to him for a while. It's hard but it will help you move on. When ever I would get blue, I would remember the things that made end the relationship and reassure myself I did the right thing.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. In time, you will feel beter I promise. The first week is the hardest to get through. Now I'm single again and it's kinda fun and exciting.
Sorry it happened Bri but from what you said in your other post he certainly was not worthy of you.
Of course it's going to hurt, but it was for the best I believe, now you can spend sometime with friends and find someone who'll be sincere and treat you like you deserve to be treated.
thanks girls! all that definitely helps!! im feeling much much better... i just keep having my mom and my bestfriend remind me of all the reasons why i deserve someone soo much better than him!!! im kinda excited about finding someone new!