I currently have a dining room table for 6. The only thing setting on it is a cute salt/pepper shaker set. I also have a buffet table that I have some candles and photo frames on.
I am thinking about adding a table runner and vase of flowers (but i don't like silk flowers and don't anticipate being real good at switching out the real flowers)
Is this your formal dining area? I think a table runner and maybe a collection of coordinated candles & holders (all the same color but different heights and such) would look cool, or a big bowl of fruit. If you want some kind of 'flower arrangment' without the work and expense of changing it out all the time, you could do an arrangement of pretty branches - either blooming ones or some with an attractive shape (willow?).
We only have one dining area, so I keep one of our fruit bowls on it (it's a white ceramic pedestal), and another similar bowl with more fruit on the buffet table.
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I have an awesome dark table from pier 1 that can be dressed up or down. I put a really colorful jewel-toned runner on it with a organic looking candle holder that holds like 20 tealights. It looks really cool. Easy to keep up with, too!
We have two handblown glass candlesticks and a wood tray that holds a cluster of candles on our table. Sometimes, we'll have a tablecloth on it.
A green plant with a bit of flair in a pretty container would be a way of providing the freshness of flowers without the work. Fresh fruit idea is nice too until it gets icky.
There's a green beaded tablerunner - not a pine green, more of a grassy green. Then there's a brown iron candleabra toward one end and a Pomaireware pig toward the other. Pig not shown...
I don't overdo the table because it's annoying to move things around and I figure there's plenty going on in this room as it is.
I have a runner with a wrought iron bowl type thing with decorator balls in it on the table itself. We also have a wine cabinet (seen empty in the photo) that I now have some glass cyliners full or corks sitting on, a la pottery barn.
If you want flowers, how about potted ones? I got a 6" potted azalea at the grocery store for like $5. You could set it in a nice pot before putting it on your table. I set mine on the table set in the family room and it looks pretty.
I keep pretty placemats out, and arrange pillar candle and fresh flowers in the center. I've founf that if you use the little food packet that comes with the flowers, they last 2-3 weeks. I usually replac those every 2 weeks and move what's left to the living room for as long as they still look good. We also use our dining room every day.
Here's a pic of our diningroom. It's a half-done room, so there are many things that we're planning on changing. Someday, we'll get a different table, install drywall in place of the paneling, and get better table-top accessories. Now, we just have "bigger fish to fry."